When I first started in photography, I called myself a lifestyle photographer—which really meant I did it all. Weddings, families, maternity, newborns… you name it, I photographed it. But it wasn’t until I began niching into boudoir photography that I realized how much clarity, passion, and purpose I could bring to my work.
I didn’t like having to pick and choose what type of education to invest in. Should I attend the wedding workshop or the maternity posing workshop this year? I also didn’t love the competition that felt normal in that space. Many of my closest friends were also lifestyle photographers, which meant we were often chasing the same clients. I wanted to be able to recommend them freely, without worrying that I might be hurting my own business.
And truthfully, I didn’t feel like a true master of anything. I felt like a jack-of-all-trades.
When I started exploring the idea of niching, boudoir spoke to me right away. I’ve always been passionate about pushing women forward and celebrating them—my degree in Women’s Studies is proof of that. I loved the idea of working one-on-one, really listening to my clients, and creating an experience that reflected them.
Niching simply means narrowing your focus to one specific genre or client type. Instead of trying to cover every kind of shoot, you choose one area to pour your energy into.
A lot of photographers start broad, and that’s often the best way to learn what you truly love. Some photographers stay happily multi-genre forever. Personally, I discovered that the more I focused on niching into boudoir photography, the more my skills and client experience deepened.
One turning point came when I decided to host a boudoir mini marathon at an Airbnb. It was January, I had just had my first child, and I was craving more time with him. Also, I was thirsty for more satisfaction in my work.
The Airbnb was freezing that morning—we could literally see our breath during my first client’s couples session. But even with the cold, I was hooked. Over the course of the day, I photographed single women, couples, brides, and pregnant women. The images I took that weekend still live rent-free in my head, and that couple I worked with? They just recently came back for another session. See their first session vs. second session images at the end of this blog!
That marathon also shaped my style. I realized how much I love single-light setups that create moody, cinematic images. And as a bonus, some of the photos from that weekend ended up being my first published features in magazines. Looking back, that chilly Airbnb session was the moment I knew boudoir was was my calling.
And as I quickly learned, working with a photographer who lives and breathes one style can shape the entire experience.
Boudoir isn’t “just” another style of portrait photography. Niching into boudoir photography means the person you’re working with fully understanding those rhythms. Those emotional layers, and the creative demands that make this genre so unique.
I want your images to feel familiar. I want you to know what to expect, because there’s power in knowledge. Not only will you be empowered through the images we create together, but you’ll also be empowered by knowing the process and what’s ahead long before your session day arrives. Everything from the studio atmosphere to the way I guide posing is designed to help you feel comfortable.
I’ve spent years learning how to use light and posing to flatter every body type, highlight your favorite features, and bring out the mood you want. Many clients share that they’re insecure about certain skin textures, scars, cellulite, or other areas. I love when people tell me this. It gives me the opportunity to reassure them—and often, through lighting, posing, and angles, those “problem areas” simply disappear. This is one reason I find single-light atmospheres and moody lighting so flattering.
Not a single woman I’ve consulted with or photographed has been there “just” to take sexy pictures. There are always profound reasons—usually more than one. Many of my clients are gift givers, offering these images (a piece of the most vulnerable part of themselves) to a partner. But they’re also there for themselves—to celebrate, to reclaim, to honor the person they are right now. Boudoir is a win-win: you leave with a meaningful gift for someone you love, but you also walk away with something even more powerful—self-celebration. My role is to hold space for those reasons, to make sure they are honored in the way we plan, photograph, and present your images.
I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach. Spending time getting to know you in the weeks and months leading up to your session is so important. I’ll send you a detailed questionnaire so I can understand your vision, your comfort level, and your style. I keep in touch regularly so you always feel supported and never forgotten. We meet virtually before your session—your complimentary lingerie consultation—so we can talk about wardrobe ideas, body-flattering options, and the overall vibe you’re dreaming of. From your prep guide to my 300+ piece client closet (and yes, lingerie is always optional), every part of your experience is designed specifically for you. Click here to read more about how I help clients navigate lingerie and outfit options.
There’s no one “right” way to run a photography business. I know talented photographers who shoot multiple genres and love the variety. But for me, focusing on one niche has brought unexpected clarity, deeper creative satisfaction, and a stronger sense of community.
When I was shooting multiple genres, it was hard to decide where to invest my time and money in expanding my skills. Should I attend the wedding workshop or the maternity posing workshop? Join the newborn mentorship or the family photography course? There was always a feeling of having to choose one path at the expense of another.
When I began niching into boudoir photography, that changed. I didn’t have to choose anymore. I could narrow my focus and pour all of my learning and energy into the one thing I loved most. Instead of being active in 20+ Facebook groups for differeny specialties, I stayed in the spaces that served my growth. Now, I get to focus on specific areas of boudoir to expand my skill and knowledge in. Ultimately, I’m working toward becoming a true master. They say you need 10,000 hours in something before mastering it, and I’m happy to spend those hours here.
When I first started my business, it was called Cheeky Fox Photography. A lifestyle brand named after my oldest son’s chubby cheeks and his animal motif, a fox. During a boudoir workshop hosted by Kait Nuytten of The Envy Collective, she gently challenged me. Does Cheeky Fox align with your boudoir brand? The truth was, it didn’t. That question planted the seed for my rebrand to Helios Boudoir—a name and brand built to reflect the empowerment, artistry, and storytelling that boudoir represents to me.
Kait’s courses, workshops, and presets have been transformative in my business. I’m so grateful for her influence, and I recommend her to any photographer looking to grow—not just in skill, but in vision and confidence.
BTS from Kait’s Posing Workshop:
One of my favorite benefits of niching is that I now get to recommend my photographer friends freely—without feeling like I’m competing with them—and they recommend me when women are seeking boudoir services. I love that I can support my friends wholeheartedly. Often, a boudoir client will return to me months or years later, newly engaged and asking for recommendations for an engagement or wedding photographer. Because I’ve worked with her one-on-one, I know her style and personality, and I can confidently recommend a friend whose work I know will be a perfect match.
Having my own private studio has been a game-changer for creative freedom. I’ve been able to design it as a true reflection of my passions and the things that ignite my creativity—and I’ve found that the space itself attracts clients. Almost every person who walks in compliments my rose-gold tile ceiling, which was inspired by the romantasy novels I was devouring during the studio design phase. This space allows me to experiment, refine, and fully immerse myself in boudoir artistry in a way that feels both personal and professional.
Whether you’re hiring a specialist or niching into boudoir photography yourself, the results are often more intentional, creative, and meaningful. Clients benefit from working with someone who has dedicated years to refining their approach in a single area—someone who has seen hundreds of variations of poses, lighting, and emotional dynamics and can adjust effortlessly to make the experience feel natural and supportive.
There are many fantastic multi-genre photographers who deliver incredible results and unforgettable client experiences. But when it comes to boudoir—because it is such an intimate and vulnerable space—it’s worth being particularly cautious. When boudoir isn’t approached with care and intention, it can leave a client feeling worse than when they started, sometimes even amplifying pre-existing self-esteem concerns. This is why it’s so important to choose a photographer who deeply understands the emotional weight and responsibility that comes with this work.
Photographers benefit from specialization too. Niching can give you clarity in your messaging, confidence in your skills, and the ability to serve your clients in ways that feel personal and impactful. For me, focusing on boudoir has allowed me to pour all my creative and emotional energy into one space—and that energy is contagious. My clients feel it.
I also recognize that niching is a privilege. I work with a marketing firm that has helped me shape my boudoir focus into a sustainable business—one that provides for my family, supported me through my divorce, and allows me to do work that fills me up creatively and emotionally. Not every photographer has the resources, time, or support to niche this way, and that’s okay. The key is to approach whatever you shoot with intention and respect for the people in front of your lens.
For me, leaning into what I love most has been transformative. And that transformation isn’t just in my business—it’s in the way I connect with my clients, the images we create together, and the stories we tell.
My background in Women’s Studies gave me a deep understanding of the ways women navigate body image, confidence, and identity—and how those things are shaped by culture, relationships, and life experience. I didn’t know it at the time, but that foundation would become one of my greatest tools as a boudoir photographer.
Life added its own chapters. I went through a divorce, became a single mom, and began the process of rediscovering myself. Boudoir became more than just a creative outlet—it became a way to connect, to listen, and to help other women see themselves in a new light.
I still think back to those first boudoir mini sessions I hosted in the freezing Airbnb—the one that introduced me to couples, brides, and expectant mothers all through the lens of boudoir. That first marathon confirmed that niching into boudoir photography was more than a curiosity — it was my calling.Those sessions showed me just how powerful this work could be, both for the women in front of my camera and for me behind it.
Now, every session I photograph feels like a blend of art, advocacy, and collaboration. I get to create something that celebrates a woman exactly as she is, in the season she’s in. And in the process, I’m reminded of my own strength and resilience through the women I work with. Focusing on this one genre has made me a better photographer for my clients, and a happier one for myself.
If you’re a client, choosing a boudoir specialist can mean stepping into an experience that is intentionally designed for your comfort, confidence, and vision—every detail planned to make you feel seen, heard, and celebrated.
If you’re a photographer, know that there’s no single “right” way to build your business. You can serve your clients beautifully in multiple genres. But if there’s one style of photography that speaks to you in a deeper way, giving yourself permission to lean into it—even just a little—can be transformative.
For me, niching into boudoir photography has shaped everything: the way I photograph, the way I connect with people, and the way I run my business. It’s given me a career that sustains my family, supported me through major life changes, and allows me to create art that is both personal and powerful.
At Helios Photography, boudoir isn’t just something I offer—it’s the heart of everything I do. And that focus is what allows me to create experiences that go far beyond photographs.
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